Everyone says, “Just go. It’s family.” But what if going feels like stepping into a minefield? What if the thought of small talk, judgment, and old grudges sends your anxiety skyrocketing? Let’s unpack why that “should go” feeling exists and how to navigate it without...
When your boyfriend suddenly “needs space” right before the holidays, that’s not random. That’s not casual. And it’s definitely not something to brush off with, “Oh…okay, let me know when you’re done.” No. We’re not doing that here. Some women panic. Some get quiet....
Ah, the holidays. Time for twinkling lights, awkward hugs, and… introducing your brand-new boo to your family. Nothing says “holiday cheer” like throwing someone into the middle of your family circus and praying they survive. Here’s the cold, honest truth: there is...
As the holidays approach, “family first” messages are everywhere, matching pajamas, cozy dinners and smiling posts of togetherness. But for many, this season brings a quieter pain. If you’re estranged from your family by choice, by necessity, or by survival, the...
So… you slept with your best friend’s ex. And he was F I N E, like, capital F-I-N-E fine. Doesn’t make it right. I’m not here to judge you, but I’m not about to sugarcoat it either: You screwed up, girlfriend. Big time. Now you’re wondering if you should confess… or...
Breakups are messy, messy business. And sometimes, the hardest part isn’t the heartbreak, it’s the emotional hangover that lingers long after the door has closed. That “if only” moment keeps creeping in: “If only he wasn’t a gaslighter… a manipulator… maybe even a...
We need to talk about something a lot of women fall into without realizing it, the mothering trap. It starts with love: you want to take care of him, make his life easier, show how much you care. But before you know it, you’re not his partner anymore… you’re his...
Love Without a Contract I thought love would be enough. After seven years together, I believed we had built something solid, something that didn’t need a ring or a piece of paper to prove it. But then came the seven-year itch, and just like that, it was over. Eighteen...
Yeah yeah, we’ve all debated this before. But let’s be honest; this gets murky fast when one person has (or had) feelings. Let me just say it: I actually don’t think men and women can stay close friends if there’s romantic history or lingering attraction. And I...
Let’s not pretend. You snooped. His phone was there, curiosity got the best of you, and you saw a flirty little message from his ex. Now your stomach’s in knots and your mind’s spinning. Is it cheating? Not exactly. Is it disrespectful? Absolutely. And now you’re...
